The information on this site is not here to “fix” you. You are phenomenal. It is here to transform you. Or rather to give you the tools, the perspective, and the space to transform yourself into who you are and who you want to become.
I have a history of dating from a place of scarcity. It can feel as though I have limited chances. We’ve all felt that. We’ve all wondered if we’ve someone missed our person. Or thought that they were the one and now they’re gone. There’s an emptiness on the other side of that. One that […]
I am determined to live many lives. This is a belief I hold fiercely. I repeat it to whomever I can, whenever I can in order to make it solid and tenable. In order to transform it into the force that pulls my life forward instead of waiting for it to materialize on the periphery […]
I have a tremendous amount of feelings. I fall hard and I soar greatly. And I love that about myself. Not so much the dark, but the capacity to feel it. The bandwidth and the breadth to inhabit the details of this world that exist within the far ends of the spectrum of experience. We […]
Can you change someone? This question is bound so tightly within dating lore that it can feel like the thing itself. Dating: finding the person you think you can change enough to live with in real life. Humans are these curious and conflicting mix of fluid and solid. When we enter the world of romantic […]
It is so curious how the evidence of our own life isn’t enough to persuade us against the broad generalizations of this world. We know that we never fall cleanly into some category, and yet we think we should. We think everyone else does. I used to look at being single with such pointed partitioning: […]
I’ve been thinking a lot about transparency lately. How there are so many things in this world we don’t get to be privy to, and how their supposed absence shapes the way that we live. It’s the sheen of togetherness that coats everyone’s life but our own. It’s the lack of a journey in the […]